Written by Calvin Mann
What has this world come to? and how will it be shown in our History? Well I was thinking on this very thing as I have been doing so much struggling myself. It’s not that I’m complaining but wanting to notice where are the men at?
So I prayed and begin to see through out the world men are fading fast and we sit by and just let it happen. Men we are more then you know and we must endure more then you have been taught. So many of us have excuses and so many of us don’t.
Let’s just take a look at some very poor stats that effect the family today. 70% of families are in the hands of women and I don’t care what you say it is by design that this exist and yet we have done nothing about it OK, for the black families, we have a 80% prison rate for men and Hispanics also, looking at a law system that you don’t even commit the most crimes, but you also have the drop out rate to match that. Education and Ignorance seems to be going the same way let’s see some cities boast 19% graduation rates and most of the teachers are women, Not men.
Men did you know reading levels for young men are horrible some nationalities boast not being able to read past the third grade?
We seem to allow this system we live in to dictate what we will become, and if that’s true we are in deep trouble as you can see.
I have to take a break in here to point out for over 200 or more years we have been referred as a lot of negative terms by women, men, preachers, teachers, and ourselves, I am not a Dog, bum, Nigga, or Nigger, porch monkey, coon, neg, player, playboy, pimp, the man, Hoe, whore, soldier, soft, punk, gangsta, I AM A GODLY FATHER!
Now that the negative stuff is out of the way here are a few things we can do and I mean that. “Time is all we have to Change what we are”
We have been given three gifts men and each one of them must be used to help better our future
1. Every man has a gift find out what it is and use it for the good, not for greed,
2.Fatherhood is not just for your house but it’s for your community, notice how when a father is in the house the community looks better when he’s not well you already know.
3. which is the most important one your spiritual well being God has put a lot on us and most of has failed in this department, Men we must endure and that means it’s not about you but about your tree, your legacy.
We must begin to move away from self and love what God has done to us and Legacy build. Our Young Men need us so bad and we are not there we are leaving our kids in the hands of women and while they have them there is no positive stat that goes with that, but when Men are in the lives of the children it just show all the positives and for you none believers I’m not mad at you but, That’s GOD.
Now if we continue the path that we are on men at war for greed, Fathers being shot while begging for his life at a gas station, three boys missing and the dad knows where, 2 boys killing any young teen, a Soldier being stabbed, and Domestic violence through the roof. “Neg=Not enough God” So please Men, women, and children let us begin to pray more for the Good things and not wait until its so bad to give God the glory, because no matter what you think Men Must Endure for our world to have Order. God bless you all and I love you all.
Calvin Mann CEO Good Fathers Only LLC